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I would take 1 michelle obama over beyonce's for real. What I have learned about me is I like black women still but not of my age group or my generation. I'm 26 and most of the black women i went for were 10 to 15 years older then me have their shit together emotionally the one's I date tend to be workaholics and have no kids it's a growing trend in most professional black women I call it the oprah effect. I will say this alot of the black girls not all but again alotin my age group are out of their minds. I dated them but for some reason younger black women turn me off if a black girl is under 30 I can tell by her actions she is still stuck in a little girl mode. I like women who can engage me and allow me to engage them in various ways. The black cougar women I have dated have guided me treated me well and most importantly showed me respect as a male counterpart. This is my ratio for every 4 black women only 1 has their head on straight. Personally I am just looking for well mannered women ,well spoken women turn me on,educated ,takes care of herself and don't have kids with several different men. She understood after a back and forth debate for a couple of weeks I let her go for her own wellbeing because she would of stayed with me till i was ready and she would probably be out of childbearing stage by then so better to look for some one who is ready. The older sistas are more confident yes they do have more baggage but I always ask 21 questions to see if their still carrying their baggage or have put them in storage and moved on with their lives. I like older black women with more going for them and wisdom to spare. I have also dated white women in their 20's but most have been long distant relationships. That is scarey what i mean by that their healthy, mentally strong , emotionally stable and have beautiful vocab no ebonics. But your fellow sistas who act out of their minds are not doing black women justice. I just wish i was at a point in my life where I want marriage then it would be all gravy. Yes ladies their alot of them i have tried to talk to them on black planet and I have engaged them in discussion it's really bad out their right now for black women. Now seeing a girl in PA i live in nyc it seems to be working. Most of the girls that yes i have been interested in are latina and white women in my age range. Their stubborn, immature , looking for something flashy and like what some of the guys said I know the type of women their talking about in black women. Ladies if you do have a black daughter pull in the reigns on their braids their not understanding what life is about. If anything Im not a self hating black man im just a agist lol. But only downside is they push to early for marriage , i was proposed to by a lover of mine when I was 22 but thank god i had the awareness to realize in my twenties I dont want marriage.
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