Like any muscle in your body, the sphincter needs to be prepared to stretch to accommodate anything coming in. Just the thought of having something else up there brought me out in a cold sweat, and filled me with a sense of foreboding. This way, you are in control of how deep they go.
As a man, anal sex can open the door to amazing sensations. And certainly, I would never expect anyone who has never experienced any anal stimulation to just jump right in. You will want to use plenty of it — and it needs to be a good quality anal lube. In order to make it as comfortable as possible, you need to ensure things stay plenty slippery. So have your partner lie on their back, and then you can straddle them and lower yourself. Unfortunately, they seemed more concerned with how good it felt for them, rather than how comfortable I was. Well I hope you have enjoyed this guide and found something useful or interesting. Now, when you are a hormonal, shy and unconfident person such as myself at least back then, anyway — the thought that someone would actually want to have sex with me was enough for me to completely drop my guard and say OK! This way, you are in control of how deep they go. Double the pleasure for them! You could also try lying on your side, with your knees up close to your chest — this is often what I would suggest when using anal toys, as it makes it easier for insertion, so may help make penetration easier for you. If it helps, use a bath bomb or three. You need to take it SLOW and be patient. Others see as it as the ultimate act of trust, love and closeness. Or how about using a stroker if your receiving partner also has a penis? As long as you have taken the time to properly prepare yourself, and relax, you can get through it. So what do I mean by preparation? Having a cock be the first thing to ever go up is going to be a memorable experience, but for all the wrong reasons! Some people see it as taboo. The difference this time, was that we actually spent some time getting ready before going ahead. At that point, I felt so incredibly stupid — but as we got closer and I learnt to trust him, my opinions towards sex changed — I wanted to experience everything with him. The whole point is just to not only relax the body but the mind as well. Be respectful of each others boundaries. To have the most comfortable and enjoyable experience, if you are receiving, you will want to make sure that you are in complete control. Anyway… This guide has been put together to help those would-be bottoms or curious tops navigate their first time with ease and confidence. Why would I want to have anal sex?!?!
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